Dad: The Forgotten Griever As Father’s Day approaches, many churches will rightfully celebrate fathers for their love, strength, guidance, and sacrifice. Yet for some men sitting quietly in the pews, Father’s Day will not feel celebratory at all. It will deepen the ache of loss. Some are grieving the death of a child. Others mourn a spouse, a father, or … Read More
Encouragement for Grieving Students, Teachers and School Staff For many families, the beginning of a new school year is filled with anticipation. Back to school means many new and exciting things ahead. But for grieving students, teachers, administrators, and school staff, the summer has brought unimaginable loss. During those months away from school, someone they dearly loved died. Perhaps it was … Read More
Smiles and laughter are among the many faces we might see on Father’s Day. But there is another face we may see and, hopefully, won’t overlook on this holiday—the face of someone grieving the loss of their father. For caregivers of the grieving, holidays are important times to remember that this day can be about both gratitude and grief. Perhaps … Read More
There is a particular kind of grief that is seldom named in ministry, yet quietly shapes the life of nearly every pastor. It is sometimes known as “cumulative grief.” It is not the grief of a single loss, but of multiple losses. Over the years, pastors walk closely with their people—through hospital rooms, shared prayers, laughter in fellowship halls, and … Read More
As Mother’s Day approaches, sanctuaries fill with flowers, gratitude, and well-earned celebration. Yet sitting quietly among the congregation are those for whom this day carries a different weight—the aching absence of a mother who is no longer here. For pastors and grief caregivers, this is a sacred opportunity. With gentle attentiveness, we can help the Church become a place where … Read More
Losing a loved one is difficult. Someone you cared about and may have even seen on a daily basis is now no longer with you. It’s a drastic change, and it can leave us feeling hopeless. That’s why grief care is important. Grief care is a ministry to reach out to people who are hurting. Maybe that is right after … Read More
When someone you care about is grieving, you may feel at a loss as to how to help them. The good news is, you don’t need to fix their grief, or have the right words. You can support a grieving person well with small, consistent acts of kindness and presence. This will remind them they’re not alone. The seven suggestions … Read More
When someone has experienced loss, it can be tricky to know what to do or say. “Should I ask someone who is grieving how she’s feeling?” “Is it appropriate to try to cheer her up or get her to laugh?” Knowing the exact right thing to say or do is difficult, and it is very dependent on the person who … Read More
Grieving the death of a loved one is a unique and difficult experience. People have lots of overwhelming emotions and need support along the way. Someone you know is deep in the midst of grief and loss. You want to help a grieving friend, but what do you say to make anything better? Especially when nothing you say to someone … Read More
Grief is one of the most challenging and overwhelming experiences a person can go through. When anyone we care about is hurting, it’s natural to want to reach out. But finding the right words or gestures can feel impossible. Making a care package for someone grieving is one meaningful way to show support. It’s a quiet reminder that they are … Read More
