THE CHALLENGE OF MISSING YOUR DAD ON FATHER’S DAY

Missing Dad on Father's Day: Blue tie on Blue background, note that says "When it's not a happy father's day"

Smiles and laughter are among the many faces we might see on Father’s Day. But there is another face we may see and, hopefully, won’t overlook on this holiday—the face of someone grieving the loss of their father.  For caregivers of the grieving, holidays are important times to remember that this day can be about both gratitude and grief. Perhaps … Read More

WHEN MOM IS MISSING ON MOTHER’S DAY

Blue background with yellow flowers. When Mom is missing on Mother's day

As Mother’s Day approaches, sanctuaries fill with flowers, gratitude, and well-earned celebration. Yet sitting quietly among the congregation are those for whom this day carries a different weight—the aching absence of a mother who is no longer here. For pastors and grief caregivers, this is a sacred opportunity. With gentle attentiveness, we can help the Church become a place where … Read More

ADOPTEE GRIEF ON MOTHER’S DAY: HEALING A BROKEN HEART

Tiles that spell out Adoptee grief on a background of brown and teal stripes

For many, especially those who were adopted, grief is complicated. Missing a mother can take many forms, especially for those experiencing Mother’s Day grief or navigating Mother’s Day without mom. Mother’s Day may never fit neatly into your story. It may always carry both questions and quiet reflections It may not come from shared memories, but from the deep pain … Read More

FINDING HOPE WHEN GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A MOTHER 

Grieving the loss of a mother. A mother and daughter looking at each other

Losing your mom is usually devastating. The unique connection that exists between mothers and their children, no matter the age,  But the thing is, death is not the only way one can lose their mother. Sometimes, the grieving process begins because your relationship has been emotionally fractured. A mother’s love leaves a lifelong imprint—so does her absence. The loss might come … Read More